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Tradition Of Spoon Playing In Southern Missouri

Spoon playing is more than just a form of music—it's a cultural artifact, deeply woven into the fabric of Southern Missouri’s rich musical history.  A rhythm born out of necessity and creativity, spoon playing has been passed down through generations as an expression of resilience, resourcefulness, and community. Though it’s often overlooked today in the face of modern entertainment, the tradition of spoon playing has left an indelible mark on the music and identity of Southern Missouri.

The Roots of Spoon Playing: A Necessity and a Celebration.

The history of spoon playing in Southern Missouri stretches back to the early 1800s when settlers from Appalachia and other regions began to make their way to the Ozarks. These settlers brought with them the customs and traditions of their homelands, and for many, music was an integral part of daily life. However, for many families, especially those in remote rural areas, access to instruments like fiddles, banjos, or pianos was limited. The spoons, however, were universal—an easily accessible household item, able to produce a rhythmic sound with little more than a few deft taps.

The technique itself is simple yet effective. Two spoons are held loosely in one hand and played by striking them against the palm, thigh, or against each other. A quick flick of the wrist and the spoons produced a sharp, crisp sound that could be heard over the crowd, adding an infectious beat to any music. It became an instrument of choice for both young and old, something that could be played at barn dances, social gatherings, or simply around the family hearth.

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The center of attraction!  Back in the early days, it was not uncommon for any bandmember to add value to the group by also being able to play the spoons.

A Spoon isn't just a Spoon.

Musical spoons, also known as "spoons" or "spoon percussion," are typically made from metal, wood, or sometimes plastic. Traditionally, they are made from metal, often steel or brass, which gives them a distinct sound when struck together. However, some modern versions are crafted from wood or plastic for lighter sounds or for different tonal qualities. The choice of material affects the tone, resonance, and overall sound produced when the spoons are clacked together or used in rhythmic patterns.

You can use regular eating spoons to make music!  Many people use everyday spoons (usually metal) for traditional spoon-playing, where they are clacked together in rhythmic patterns. These eating spoons are often held in one hand while being struck or tapped against another spoon, the body, or a surface to produce different sounds.  Although musical spoons made specifically for percussion may be slightly more durable or have a refined shape, regular spoons can still create a fun and authentic sound for folk music, rhythm, or traditional performances.

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Crafted from wood, these spoons produce a softer, warmer tone compared to the sharp, bright sound of metal—showcasing the unique musical charm of the Ozarks.

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Metal spoons bring a sharper, crisper sound to the rhythm, offering a brighter tone that’s easier to play with a quick, lively bounce compared to their wooden counterparts.

Passing The Spoon.  For some families, the spoons themselves became cherished heirlooms, passed down from one generation to the next.  It was not uncommon for a family to have a set of spoons that had been played for decades, if not centuries, carefully preserved and handed down at significant milestones in a person’s life.  There was a tradition in some families where, upon reaching a certain age, typically around ten or twelve, a child would receive their very own pair of spoons.  This was seen as a rite of passage, a moment when they were considered old enough to carry on the family’s musical heritage.

The spoons were often given with great reverence and ceremony, sometimes wrapped in cloth or placed in a small, decorated box as part of a gift-giving tradition.

The spoons themselves also sometimes had names.  Families would develop little stories or jokes about their spoons. Perhaps one was known for its "spunky" sound, another for its' ability to maintain perfect rhythm, or maybe a particular set had been a gift from a beloved grandparent.

Keeping the Beat: Abby Parks Tradition of Spoon Playing.

Abby Parks is one of the most well-known individuals with the surname Spooner, hailing from Wichita, Kansas.  Known for her vibrant personality and contributions to the local community, Abby has made a name for herself through her involvement in various social initiatives and public events.  Whether it's through her professional endeavors or her personal connections, she has left a lasting impression on those who know her, embodying the spirit of dedication and service to others.

Residing in Wichita, Abby has also become a familiar figure in the city, with her efforts reaching beyond her immediate circle.  Her reputation as a kind and approachable person has made her an influential and beloved member of the community.

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My name is Abby and I’m a spoon player. I’m not fancy, I’ve just learned to puff my chest out a bit. Through a series of miscellaneous circumstances, I have come to be known as the “Spoon Lady” and I’ve enjoyed the ride.

The Decline and Preservation: A Tradition Almost Lost.

By the early 20th century, as technological advances brought new entertainment options and mass-produced instruments became more accessible, the prominence of spoon playing began to wane. 

Despite these changes, spoon playing didn’t vanish completely. Instead, it became a cherished memory, something that might be brought out for a special occasion or remembered fondly by older generations. 

Yet, the heart of Southern Missouri is a place where history is never fully forgotten. In the 1960s and 1970s, as part of the broader folk music revival in the United States, Southern Missouri witnessed a resurgence of interest in its musical traditions. The spoons once again found their place in the community as part of a renewed effort to preserve the folk music and culture of the region.

Local festivals, such as The Heart Of The Ozarks Bluegrass Festival in West Plains, became venues where traditional music, including spoon playing, was celebrated. 

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Want to see spooning from local artists?  Check out Heart Of the Ozarks Bluegrass Association’s annual event in West Plains, Missouri, June 5-7 2025 & Sept. 25-27 2025—celebrating over 40 years of bluegrass tradition! This family-friendly festival features local bands, jam sessions, and unique performances, including the traditional art of spoon playing. Don’t miss the chance to experience the best of bluegrass and local culture in the heart of the Ozarks!